11 December, 2001 --
It's very hot and dry now, and there will be little or no rain until
March. We are so thankful to be at 5,000 feet. We were in Kisumu
last week down by Lake Victoria and came back decidedly wilted.
There was a regional
agricultural show last week in Kakamega, and the President himself
came to the opening day. For three days we had city water and the
roads were graded on the chance that he might see them or travel on
them. (Don't get me started.) He maintains a very large house and
grounds near the town centre for the one or two days a year he might
be here.
We have long, busy
days taking in marks and preparing fee schedules for the coming
year. Our girls are very poor (but we have at least four potential
doctors, one pilot and couple of budding lawyers, plus a French
teacher in the making) but they sometimes bring a small gift. We've
received bananas and papayas, a large bag of unshelled groundnuts
and, last week, a heavy object in a bag. My colleague nearly jumped
out of her skin when she moved the bag and it wriggled. Upon
investigation, she found a rooster lying with its legs tied. This
was a valuable gift and of course we couldn't refuse it, but what
does one do with it? It was tied up outside for a day and a night
and dutifully crowed like clockwork every thirty seconds during
daylight hours. Eventually we sent our askari to ask the teachers at
the literacy class if they could use it for their harambee
(fundraiser) next week. They were delighted to accept. It might
still end up in a stew pot, but it could be sold for cash.
Last Saturday we were
guests at a wedding. The bride was a CHES student and was also
assisted by ACCES (African Canadian Continuing Education Society.)
She now works as a secretary for ACCES. The wedding was scheduled
for 10 a.m. and got underway only half an hour late (many people
told us to arrive only at midday). It began with the bridegroom's
procession of some half a dozen serious young men. They were quickly
seated, and the bride's procession began. This was what it was all
about! Small boys danced down the aisle carrying candles and bibles
(choreographer hovering nearby). Young girls in white dresses and
straw hats who danced in front of the congregation followed them.
Then came young women carrying flowers. The latter formed an arch
when the bride appeared at about 11.30. She took half an hour to
progress slowly down the aisle (not a long one) accompanied by a
matron of honour.
During all this, the
music was lively and loud, with a running commentary in English and
Kiswahili.
When everyone was
assembled, the wedding participants began animated prayers and hymns
and danced spontaneously and vigorously, some falling to their
knees.
The wedding service
itself was lovely with a few interesting and symbolic customs.
Before the exchange of vows, the groom lifted the bride's veil. He
had paid a "bride price" or dowry and had to be reassured
that he was getting the right woman. After the vows, the couple was
hung with garlands and cakes were cut. First the couple gave each
other a piece, the first food they would share as man and wife. Then
they came down to the congregation and offered pieces of the cakes
to their respective families as a sign of caring and respect.
Next, individuals and
groups were called up to present their gifts, beginning with the
families. Most danced their way to the front, waving their arms and
the women ululating. Of course when it was our turn, the wazungus
(whites) walked sedately to greet the couple and leave a gift.
Hand-washing was then
organised and we were treated to a meal of rice, chicken and
chapattis. During the meal the families and friends were invited to
come forward to introduce themselves and say something about the
bride or the groom. Parents, uncles, aunts and cousins told in a few
heartfelt words what the new couple meant to them.
At 3:30 p.m. we left
to walk home, our heads spinning with sights and sounds.